Our Roper Family Chronicle (1807-2004)
Compiled and created by Steve Roper 2004
Bygone family tales often involved the South-West part of
England and the local farming community. It therefore came as
no great surprise when genealogical research linked us to
‘William Roper’, a Dairyman living in ‘Cowley, Whitchurch,
Dorset’. The ‘Broadwindsor Marriages Register’ recorded his
marriage to Susannah Bridle on 25-03-1807. This was maybe
somewhat of a hurried marriage as their first son ‘John
Roper’ was baptized in Whitchurch on 30-08-1807! A little
later on 31-07-1814, the ‘Thomcombe, Dorset Records’ indicate
that William and Susannah are living at Marshwood where twins
were baptized on that day as ‘Robert and Samuel Roper’. A
family treasure is an old hand-written note with this same
information but for Robert only - obviously singled out by
earlier relatives as our direct family line 'our Robert'. It
looks like Susannah died shortly after the birth of the twins.
On 15-07-1823 William's second marriage was to 'Martha Pomery'
at 'Whitchurch Cannonicorum, Dorset'. William and Martha had
four sons starting with Amos (b 18-04-1824), Charles (b Abt
1828), Arthur (b Abt 1829) and Mathew (b Abt 1833). Amos is
mentioned in the next paragraph. Mathew married 'Anna Maria
Conway' at Beaminster on 09-05-1854, daughter of 'William
Conway' a butcher in Beaminster. Later in 1881, Mathew and
Anna were publicans at 'White Hart, Wix Green, Essex'.
We step back a little to 1849 and 'our' Robert Roper. He
married Mary Major in 'Chard, Devon'. Two years on, the 1851
Broadwindsor census records: Robert(age 37), 'Dairyman at
Crocken Farm', wife Mary(age 39) and son William(age 1).
Robert's half-brother Amos was working for him as an
Agricultural Labourer. The ‘Dorset Archives’ for 19-01-1851
show William born in Beaminster and baptized as ‘William Major
Roper’. The farm was listed as only 9-acres and not large
enough to support two families(Robert's and Amos's).
Considering this, it seems likely Robert's later recorded
occupation of 'Milk Dealer' was already in operation and
provided the financial answer. Robert and Mary had two more
sons: ‘John Roper’ (bapt 13-05-1852) in Broadwindsor and
‘Robert George Roper’(bapt 23-12-1855) in Bettiscombe.
William is our direct family line but John and Robert were
both actively involved, as you will read later.
A point to consider here is the variety of recorded locations
for births etc. Boundary and administration changes around
this time were commonplace and in this case, especially where
Devon and Somerset join with West Dorset. What looks like a
family move is often the relocation of the Records Office.
Time travels forward to the 1881 Census. It indicates that
Robert and Mary had moved from Dorset to ‘Coped Hall, Wootton
Bassett, Wiltshire’. Their son John (now aged 28) lived at
home and formed part of their business as a milk dealer. In
the same household lived ‘John Trembling’ (aged 17), his
occupation listed as ‘carter with milk cart’. We cannot be
certain about this move to Wootton Bassett in the late 1860s,
but a fair assumption would be, to expand the business by
supplying milk, cheese and other dairy products from the rich
pastures of Wiltshire, directly into London by train. Four
facts compliment this theory: (1) The census shows Robert
(Dad) as a Milk dealer. (2) Wootton Bassett's historic
documents describe local milk deliveries from the railway
station to London. (3) Their son Robert (known as George) was
living in ‘Ealing, London’ with his occupation listed as
Milkman, then later Shopkeeper and Dairy Owner. (4) A little
later, son John had a farm close-by and specialized in
quality cheeses and butter, adding to the range of products
to be sold in London.
John married Elizabeth Humphries (known as Bessie) in 1883, a
well-to-do and well educated local girl. Their cheese and
butter business was based on a farm in the low-lying meadows
of Clyffe Pypard village (near Wootton Bassett). The farm was
ideal for dairy cows and they were very proud of their
reputation for quality products.
Family recollections and the 1881 census indicate that
William (the oldest son) was apprenticed as a carpenter,
after which he owned a thriving coach-building and
wheelwright business in ‘Swindon, Wiltshire’. He married
‘Susannah Pritchard’ from Monmouth. Their first child was a
girl ‘Elizabeth Mary Louise Roper’ (b 11-04-1880). Two years
later a boy arrived ‘Thomas George Roper’ (b 03-06-1882) and
finally another girl ‘Ellen Roper’ (b: 1884). In 1885 real
tragedy struck these young children when Dad 'William'
suddenly died and even more so in 1889 when Mum 'Susannah'
also died. The children’s destiny was either the orphanage or
fostered. The family rallied to their needs: Elizabeth went
to live with her mother’s family in Monmouth, Ellen moved to
Ealing to live with her Uncle Robert. Thomas (our direct
family line) was taken to Clyffe Pypard to be with his Uncle
John and Aunt Bessie.
Memorabilia, photographs and recollections from this time,
portray a family group with financial success. They dressed
well, lived in smart houses and enjoyed travel where the
railways were used for business and leisure. Country sports
were also enjoyed including Horse Racing, Riding, Hunting and
Fishing.
On the other hand, Thomas was not entirely accepted by Aunt
Bessie - a stern, childless, very house-proud person. At
times he was treated as an outcast with such indignities as
having to bathe in the cowshed for fear of dirtying the house
facilities. John was quite different to Bessie, he
disregarded fashion and had little respect for anybody in
authority. Many saw a facade encompassing a kindly country
gentleman, others considered him quite off-hand and a ‘bit of
a rogue’. Tales from that time said the local children were
scared to enter John Roper’s land as he set man-traps. True
or false – we cannot be certain but, upon his death some old
rusty mantraps were discovered in his attic! Regardless of
these oddities, the couple nurtured Thomas into a well
educated, strong businessman, with good morals and religious
beliefs.
In 1907 Thomas (now aged 25) married ‘Fanny Eliza Gearing’
(aged 26) from Lechlade. We double checked his father’s
middle name ‘Major’ as their marriage certificate has it as
‘Maurice’ which proved to be the wrong name. A reasonable
error from Thomas – considering he was only three when his
father died. The couple first lived in ‘Walcot, Bath’ and
followed family tradition in the dairy business, no doubt
obtaining supplies from Grandfather Robert's and Uncle John’s
businesses.
The couples first child was ‘Frances Ella Roper’
(b 07-01-1908) followed the next year by ‘William John Roper’
(b 23-03-1909). Thomas often expressed a dislike for cows.
Even so, in 1912 they moved to ‘Buckleaze Farm, Pewsey,
Wiltshire’ and concentrated on milk production. As part of
the 1914-18 war effort, Canadian Army troops were billeted
there. In 1919 another move took them to ‘Wickstead Farm,
Highworth, Wiltshire’ where two more children were born ‘Esme
Pearl Roper’ (b 01-11-1921) and ‘Louis Roper’(b 1924). A
healthy business growth into 1927 instigated another move to
’Little Faringdon, Oxforshire’ where 618 acres was farmed. In
1939 additional land was rented at Blunsdon. Here, some
uncultivated land on the farm was cleared and reclaimed for
agriculture as part of the 1939-45 war effort.
Both Frances (known as Ella) and Esme (known as Pearl) were
homely spinster ladies who enjoyed life, occupations and
leisure in their rural surroundings. In 1934 William married
‘Marion Edith Watts’ a daughter of another farmer in ‘Bladon,
Oxfordshire’. They initially farmed at ‘Manor Farm, Bladon’,
then at ‘Round Robin, Highworth’ and finally in 1939 moved to
‘Hill House Farm, Thetford, Norfolk. Louis married ‘Marion
Matthews’ in ‘Swindon, Wiltshire’. He still enjoys an active
engineering career after serving in the RAF in his younger
days. Five boys and three girls were parented between the two
couples. From these eight children, ever-expanding
generations currently follow. Interestingly, two lines of the
family are still involved with Dairy Farming - not me
thankfully!
I was born fifth out of the six children of William and
Marion.The line-up of my siblings was: Thomas - known as
John, Henry – know as Teddy, Robert - known as Bobby, Marion,
Stephen (myself) and Audrey. Just to add to the confusion of
names, Dad(William) was called John or Jack, with Mum, my
older sister and auntie - all Marion Roper!
As children, it was natural (and expected) for us to help-out
on the farm, more so for the older children than us younger
ones. In return we were rewarded with the benefits and
freedom of the farm and living in the countryside - not
always appreciated by us at the time but looking back, not so
bad!
Like Grandfather Thomas, I have always held a dislike for
cows including their smelly environment. It was obvious that
I was never going to be a farmer and much preferred
engineering in all forms. In my childhood years, hard earned
pocket money was often spent on electronic components and
engineering books. Any mechanical breakdowns on farm
equipment and I was first there! My working life started in
the Motor Trade, then after Teacher Training and a
Higher-Education study period, qualified as a Lecturer with
main subjects of Computer Systems/Programming, Engineering
Technology, CAD and Design.
In 1974 I married 'Margaret' a local farmer’s daughter.
Margaret was the Catering Manager of a large school and I was
then a Vehicle Tester in a large garage. Our farming
background decreed that we would both attend our local 'Young
Farmers Club'. This is where we first met, as did many of our
friends that formed the major part of a very enjoyable social
group.
Married life for us started near 'Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk'
where we had a small bungalow. Our children Sarah and Mark
were born there. In 1988 we moved to a larger house and our
children completed their formal education and then on to
university.
Sarah read History at Durham followed by Teacher training.
She is now a Teacher here in England after extensive
worldwide travels with her partner Martin.
Mark read Computer Science at Loughborough and is now a Team
Leader/Manager with a multi-national company supplying
metering products to a worldwide market.
More written information is available in the 'Photos' section
of this website.
Sources:
1851+1881+1901 Census. Dorset Records Office. Wiltshire
Records Office. LDS Genealogy Research. Family documents and
recollections.